Yes, last post. I guess me updating those who cared turned into me seeking attention or making things up. I joined reddit to ask advice about my relationship and was so impressed by my feedback on the first post I continued. I don’t need to make things up, truthfully it’s the last thing I even need in my life right now. This post I will go over some important things people seemed to miss on my 3rd post.
-My girlfriend is very insecure about me having girl friends and is always looking at my phone “who is that girl” “the moment she wants to hang out with you alone is when I draw the line”
-I’m 20, yes i’m 20. My age never fluctuated my whole week of being on here:
-I brought up that I was slightly off put by her going with a guy i’ve never met but was okay with it because she told me it was just pizza and coming home
-When I offered for him to come over both times it was a different excuse:
1:Friday’s is our special day 2: He has coupons and it’s a waste of groceries
So mix those 2 excuses together with a gut feeling of plans changing then see what you get.
-She went hiking alone with a guy who admitted his love for her and I didn’t say a word because I trusted her at the time.
All my friends guy and girl irl said she is probably cheating when the plans changed last night. Obviously i’m going to be insecure.
-I kept posting updates because people wanted me to.
The last post made me sound controlling and insecure but ultimately the double standards and the friends in my ear brought me to be upset about everything. She didn’t respect my feelings before and even when I brought them up she continued to go do something without thinking about how it would make me feel. I brought up the times because it was very off putting that none of the story made sense the way she told me. All my friends with me agreed and said she was lying. I came home and tried to talk things out about how it made me feel without being accusing or being rude. She got really upset and slept in the guest room. We haven’t talked today at all and that’s it. Call me what you want. Say I made it up it’s up to you. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice though. This is my fourth, final post on this,and my last ever on reddit. Thanks!
-My girlfriend is very insecure about me having girl friends and is always looking at my phone “who is that girl” “the moment she wants to hang out with you alone is when I draw the line”
-I’m 20, yes i’m 20. My age never fluctuated my whole week of being on here:
-I brought up that I was slightly off put by her going with a guy i’ve never met but was okay with it because she told me it was just pizza and coming home
-When I offered for him to come over both times it was a different excuse:
1:Friday’s is our special day 2: He has coupons and it’s a waste of groceries
So mix those 2 excuses together with a gut feeling of plans changing then see what you get.
-She went hiking alone with a guy who admitted his love for her and I didn’t say a word because I trusted her at the time.
All my friends guy and girl irl said she is probably cheating when the plans changed last night. Obviously i’m going to be insecure.
-I kept posting updates because people wanted me to.
The last post made me sound controlling and insecure but ultimately the double standards and the friends in my ear brought me to be upset about everything. She didn’t respect my feelings before and even when I brought them up she continued to go do something without thinking about how it would make me feel. I brought up the times because it was very off putting that none of the story made sense the way she told me. All my friends with me agreed and said she was lying. I came home and tried to talk things out about how it made me feel without being accusing or being rude. She got really upset and slept in the guest room. We haven’t talked today at all and that’s it. Call me what you want. Say I made it up it’s up to you. Thanks to everyone who gave me advice though. This is my fourth, final post on this,and my last ever on reddit. Thanks!
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